BBNaija – Passing Judgement on Cee-C
Someone asked me if Cee-C’s behaviour in the Big Brother House was right. My response to the fellow was that from where I stand I see no “Right” or “Wrong”. What I know is that behaviours could be functional or dysfunctional depending on the context.
For
Cee-C, to the extent that some of her actions in the house brought her personal
pains and even led to isolation by other housemates’ was a sign of
dysfunctional behaviour. Let’s not forget that the natural order of society is
that folks tend to live in groups. It is this natural order that stimulates our
wants for friendship, relationships, family and social networks. Therefore a
dysfunctional behaviour normally deviates from the natural order.
Behaviour
is neither right nor wrong. I doubt if anybody has the prerogative to judge
human behaviour except of course you are conferred such rights by law. Outside
the Big brother house, CeeC is arguably the most talked about housemate. Her share
of mind in the media is outstanding and certainly “bankable”. Her popularity
would certainly get her some real goodies if extensively exploited.
Why
is this so? The same behaviour that was dysfunctional in the BBNaija house is
now functional outside the BBNaija house. She is more popular than most other
housemates, except for Miracle and probably Tobi. She has more followers on her
social media space than her peers and now rolls with Chioma in a private jet.
So!
You see! behaviours are neither wrong nor right. Rather, they are either functional
or dysfunctional depending on the circumstance.
This comment has been removed by the author.
ReplyDelete